Why my almost 12year old does not have close friends?
by Samira
(U.a.e)
My son will be turning 12 this June. He is very friendly kids of all ages like him. He plays with any one starting the age of 2 or 12. When he was younger he always use to play with only his age group. Since last 2 years I have noticed that he often plays with kids younger than him even when he has an option to play with the kids of his age. He has friends in school whom he likes and hang out but none of those kids are his best friends , they hardly invite him over. Although , they do regular meet up with other kids . There is no complain from school and teachers think he is very cooperative boy. Since he is an only child, it bothers me is there any thing uncool about him that children do make him there friend but just take him for granted? Or he lacks social skills which makes him interesting in the eye of other kids. Please suggest ways in which I can help my son. . Thanks
Comments for
Why my almost 12year old does not have close friends?
Samira, boys who are friendly will make friends. Give him time and show in the family you all like him. Maybe joining a youth group or gymnastic/football or art group may help this 12 year old lad to find close friends. He seems to be such a fine kid, that I'm sure with patience and some guidance the boy will be rewarded with good lasting friendship. All the very best and things will work out fine!
