spanking my neices at their and their parents request still seem to satisfy all even after so many years... comments ; questions?

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spanking my neices at their and their parents request still seem to satisfy all even after so many years... comments ; questions?

by J.Saxon
(Boca Grand, Fl.)

I have never spanked or hit my 3 kids(no need-
never came up) but they know why their cousins
and I go to the basement for several times a
week after school or often in the evening with
one or more parent to supervise.
It's not that I'm that much bigger than their
dads it just that I'm unemotional about it, and
the last few years they hardly cry or make a
sound. one of the the oldest actually reads(or
appears to) this on a dare from her sister and
mother, believe it or not some 16 mos. ago
I even was asked and did "hand-spank" her mother on a bet she couldn't last a month by my
wife(her sister) and half-jokingly by her husband; she just "bare"ly lasted the month
and her timid husband became her biggest cheerleader and sometime gives her quite a good
one from time to time.
The girls have all turned 18 at least and never come more than 3x a week often only once
and if/when they stop altogether there would be
no mention.
I must include that I have been gloriously
paddling my lovely & appreciative wife at least
twice a day 90min.per since our very 1st date
July 3rd, 1978;at her toying and insistance;and
I'm not certain but I don't think we missed more
than a day or two in that time. that is of
course how this all began when the oldest(now 22) was just 10 and innocently noticed and asked about my wife's red not pink backside
while changing for the beach one weekend.
Rather than lie,she looked to her sister for
guidance/support was told "might as well tell
her the truth now"; to which my niece shockingly replied "I'm a big girl, I bet I'd
like it too, like you do, Aunt Katie".
The father left it "up to you women";
but came to me in private and asked me to give it to her "good" hoping to discourage
any repeat requests. It backfired though I held back abit; for 30 long mins. I firmly
hand-spanked young Nancy's bare bottom to a
shining pink/red color, and except for the 1st 15-20 swats she hardly moved or made a peep. this is the same one who still insists
on reading during to this day... you can
fill in the blanks; 5 out of 7 other nieces
soon requested same afer they noticed Her
red backside "big girls too" not wanting to
be upped by a sister. the parents thought it
amazing how they each followed suit and how
hard I spanked each one as dad insisted.
After a couple of years the oldest asked
in private what the belt or paddle would
feel like and I warned "the each hurt worse
the belt more than hand and the paddle more
belt but that there could be no trial-run
or going back once you change(I'll always remember the several nervous swallows when I
told her she would need to have her hands tied together in front to avoid the belt
hitting a hand in defense. Another bluff
that backfired; although she asked that her hands be free when a parent was present
That's about it. I have no questions
except is there any other father or uncle or grampa in similar situation?...comments...
spare me your criticism... to thine own self
be true.

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