Me and my girlfriend live together along with her mother. My girlfriend has a two year old girl. She is always in stuff and misbehaving and we both scold her. Today her mother (my girlfriends) told us that we scold her too much. My own little girl doesn't act the way she does. Are we really scolding her too much? How much is too much? I got onto my daughter when she was younger and now I can tell her something and she will listen. Please help with any advice that you can.
It sounds like my grandmother when she stayed with us for a week. she sai that my son just stayed in trouble ... we were always onto him. I just laughed and said "probably because he was always getting into something" I don't know if there is such a thing as too much scolding. you might take a look and see if you are being too uptight about things, though. are you scolding her over a lot of little things? Or are you scolding her over things that she should be scolded over? (stuff shes doing that might hurt her- like climbing the entertainment center to jump off it.... wheee). Remember also that your daughter and your girlfriends daughter are not the same child. They arent going to behave the same way at the same age. Also, just show her lots of love and hugs and kisses. Everything will be be ok. Chill! Peace