my four years old keeps asking other kids or grown ups if they are his friends and when someone says no he cries alot what can I do about this because the teacher is also concerned
my four years old keeps asking other kids or grown ups if they are his friends and when someone says no he cries alot what can I do about this because the teacher is also concerned
by marsha
(london)
support or ways of communicating so he can stop it What could be causing it
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my four years old keeps asking other kids or grown ups if they are his friends and when someone says no he cries alot what can I do about this because the teacher is also concerned
The little kid is very insecure. He must assured constantly be that he is loved and cared for and is not a nuisance. Is there anyone in the family (even mum or dad aunty, uncle, grandma or grandpa-other sibling) who puts him down? Or did anything happen in his little life that was so traumatic that it scarred him, even a divorce can be hurtful, death in the family. You are very concerned, this is helpful, the child is in great need of re-asurance. This is a cruel world, where not only adults but even children can be crushed. Without modly coddling him, always with a smile and hug assure him that you love him completely. Encourage him but aqt the same time-try to make him more self assured. Camping trip, sport,nteraction with others etc. He sounds a lovely boy hug and kiss the lad, and all the best with your great asset!
Oct 13, 2011
To help u by: Crystal
Honestly this is probably happening because he doesn't get attention or maybe he doesn't et to be apart of things that the other kids are doing at school. Kinda like if a group of kids at school are playing and they don't treat him the same as they are treating each other he may feel like no one likes him.