My daughter is 13 now and she has had ADHD and a Non-Verbal learning profile for quite a few years. Last year she seemed to be maturing but this year she is soooo slow at getting ready 15-30 min just to put clothes on, always with no socks, doesn't care about her hair, does want to put on make up but can barely get out the door in the morning and I am bordering on a stroke each morning. She has temper tantrums, attitude and I am at the end of my rope. She always forgets her homework. Even a week after meeting with her teachers to get more organized. She apologizes and I believe she is sincere but I don't know how to motivate her. I am not a patient person and I just come unglued dealing with her. Her little sister does circles around her and is in a lot of ways more mature. I hate feeling like this every day and feeling like this toward her. What can I do to make this better. Help.