I am nine and i am in fourth grade and this perve keeps looking at them and says you and kaylea (my friend) have the biggest boobs. I started growing them in third grade and he felt me and kaylea. Me and kaylea hate it. we want to stop it cause I hang out with boys cus i am a tomboy and i dont want them to notice and thank god they have not seen them. help me
Nov 05, 2011
wtf!!! by: Anonymous
my daughters breast were squeazed by a boy at her school and she liked it!!!how do i stop this
Oct 11, 2011
Mother with same issue by: Ann
My daughter started to develop early too. She has just turned 13 and is a 28FF/28G. She is a very slight build size zero/2 in jeans that just adds to how top heavy she looks. We have always been open about it and talked about it 'them'. I am top heavy and so is her aunt (husbands sister) So she stood no chance. She just laughs and says its my fault. I take her to Bravissimo in the UK and treat her to some lovely bras to make her feel better about them, but we just talk about how everyone is unique. Some have big feet, or are short, or tall. She has learnt to value everything she has, good or bad. The advice I would give would be don't avoid the 'problem' talk about it but make sure she knows that she is normal, her chest is natural and that if others have an issue with it it is their problem. If she can get to a point of self confidence where she can just shrug off or laugh at comments like my daughter does she will never look back. Good luck.
Sep 29, 2011
dont worry by: Anonymous
i have size 32b boobs and im 10 i have been teased for it by my friends but i tend to take it personally I NEED HELP AND ADVICE!!!!!!
Sep 28, 2011
me by: Anonymous
i have grown them to and i am only 10 i dont think its natural and evryone is always staring at me -especially boys!!! i hav e also been teased 4 it
Sep 28, 2011
Not Alone by: April
Your daughter is not alone I'm 10 years old and im in a 38b im alone in my class all the other girls wear bras but they are flat..I can tell because I wear a uniform
Sep 25, 2011
Bra by: Anonymous
I have the same problem and 34a is that to big for ten. Try m&s angel bras thats is were I got mine
Sep 11, 2011
My 10yr old daughter is developing breast and the boys in her class have noticed by: Nikki
It is ok the boy are look in at them if were not lookin they won't be boys. Just try to make your body look bigger and breast smaller. Think about this if u where a boy won't u look?
Sep 08, 2011
Should Wear Bra! by: Anonymous
I was in 10,grade 5,started to wear bra with white vest,so it's comfortable and boys never look at me.pls wear white bras for school uniforms and get the correct sized bras.
Sep 06, 2011
It's ok by: Anonymous
It's ok boys notice that cz they r boys I felt werid wearing bras and that was like a year ago? Every girls get their periods wen they are developing so I think that the best way to help ur daughter is to make her wear a bra and it make the boys to be not so curious about it.I hoped I helped good luck! :)
Sep 06, 2011
I co by: Anonymous
I commented earlier and I am an 11 year old guy tell her if people stare that she needs to also work things out with her teacher so she doesn't sit near those guys
Sep 06, 2011
I'm a dude by: Anonymous
I'm a 11 year old guy and one of my best friends is a girl and has the same problem I always hang out with her and i protect her from people like that just tell her to find a friend that can defend her cuz some guys can be inappropriate
Sep 05, 2011
Big breasts by: Katerina
I'm 11 and in 5th grade.my breast started to develop at 4th grade and now I'm getting alot of attention from boys in my class.one time a boy came up to me and stared at my breast and touched them and I was shocked and pushed him hard away he said srry and run away i was soo embarrass and I told my mom.and she said boys are like that ignore them.and after school all of the boys in my class notice my breast when I came walking out of the school and some even line up to get a turn to touch my breast half of them touch it and I ran all the way home I'm so embarrass my face was red and I was crying and I no how u guys feel and that had happen to me and now I don't really care if they touch it and stared at it urgh but it's still not comtable.
Sep 04, 2011
I hate it by: Anonymous
I am just starting 7th grade, and my mom is making me wear a bra to school. I hate it! It just feels weird.
Sep 02, 2011
ugghh by: Anonymous
Im 12 and i dont like my 36b bras they are stupid!
Aug 30, 2011
I have a rack on me too!!! by: Sydney
It's ok I am 11 and getting used to the fact that I have a rack on me already. Don't say I'm "too little" to have a bf. but as soon as I started "developing" breasts it didnt bother me. But until I realized i was like the only girl in 6th grade with a rack from the produce section..... My bf IS still starring DARN my girls!!!
Aug 27, 2011
I know how you feel. by: Anonymous
I'm in 7th grade right now. All my closest friends are flat chests and I'm struggling with my B cups and wearing a bra. Anyway my friend who is 9 years old asks me "How do you get guys so easily?" And I have to tell her that guys fall for your personality but a lot of guys stare at my beasts.
I wear a lot of shirts that show some cleavage and I thought that wouldn't be a problem, but at the last second just when I think that my boyfriend isn't like that, I catch him staring.
A lot of guys look at girls like that. It's part of growing up. The only way you can stop it is by buying cloths for her that don't show. You don't want to stop her from wearing bras though.
I developed at 9 years old and when I didn't wear a bra it only bought more attention. And sometimes girls love the attention they get from guys. When the realize they like it they lower their shirts so guys can get a "better view".
Talk to your daughter. We all grow up quick. And you can't pretend you didn't go through it either so once it's all out it's all out. We all like attention but tell you're daughter there's plenty of time for that when she is older.
Aug 19, 2011
i am 10 to by: Anonymous
i am am 10 and HATE my breast and bra. my bra size is 34a! i have a 16 year old cousin who is the same size as me in bra!men staring at your breast is just somthing you have to deal with. dont worry boys look at mine all the time! it is just part of life!
Aug 17, 2011
breast growing to big on a ten year old by: kenadi mcCarty
You should be proud no matter what boys think. My freimd name is kennedy and when she was ten she had big breast she felt proud, not thinking about them is a good ideah. Sometimes it is hard to not think about them when you have thosands of people looking when go out in public you seem nervouse because people stair, but as you walk are go out fell happy that you have breasts that you can be proud of.But do not think that breast is the best because man well let me refrase that some men are manly in to breast, and some are in to butt. So be proud stick them out and smile when people stair.At school say wha t are you looking at then the might say nothing and turn around, but some people say your breast are huge say so turn around at lest I have some. And that is all I think you should do because the will not stop stairing.sincerly,Kenadi McCerty=`]
Aug 12, 2011
its ok by: Anonymous
im eleven and i have them too tell her not to worry because boys can be pervs so dont worry- bye!
Aug 04, 2011
dont care by: Anonymous
Yeah I feel ya I'm ten too and my breast have really grown a I'm devolaping early I'm al ready 5 feet 3 inches and when I take a shirt that is thin my breast stick out I do wear a bra and I always wear a hoodie but I usually don't care so you shoudnt care what others think btw I am the tallest girl in the class even than the boys sometimes I feel weird
Jul 18, 2011
Don't bother by: Anonymous
I'm 11 and I don't have any boobs but my friends do and they just ignore it so I just wouldn't let it bother you
Jul 02, 2011
Let them look by: Anonymous
Let them look it's not like their going in the bathroom and having sex. And most men look at asses now a days becuase of breast implants.
Jun 30, 2011
Ignore it or tell then to stop! by: Natasha
I am 12 in the 6th grade and I have 36C breasts. Boys look at them a d make comments. It does make me feel uncomfortable. And some boys touch them. I push them away and sat stop. And sometimes my boyfriend looks at them and touches them I tell Him to stop and he says sorry and stops but then be doesn't it again later on. And sometimes when my boyfriend here's other boys making comments about me he wants to tight them. I do sometimes wish I had smaller breasts because I feel so uncomfortable wearing certain dreases and wearing bikinis or some shirts. But have to go threw it and there is nothing j cam do to stop or control it so I just live with it. But never let any boy touch your chest.
Jun 07, 2011
My daughter is doing the same thing!!! by: Jeannette
My daughter is the same thing she has breast.And i told the docter when it start happening and she got hers at 6 years old.The docter said she has ADHD. and her body is devopling fast than normal.Theres no way to control it.
May 30, 2011
she will be fine by: Anonymous
Im 14 years old i wear a 36B i started when i was 3th grade boys never noticed (to young didnt care) but the girls noticed they said my shirt didnt look good on me i told my mom she bought me a bra about the 5/6th grade boys started to notice that i had bigger boobs than some people but all i can say for advise is get her a bra (make her waer it at first its not comfy)
May 29, 2011
Tell by: Anonymous
Get your daugher checked out because se is at high risk for breast cancer I am 12 and I don't have any breasts(I am 4'7 and 68 pounds), but my older sister had the same trouble. She told my mom and my mom was going to talk to the teachers or parents but my sister said please don't. So the problem was solved when a speaker(probably a gift from god) came and spoke about pervetedness(by this time my sister was in 5th grade) and it all stopped You should talk to the boys' parents and teachers if your daughter wants. If she doesn't then she should nock them outta their spell by saying something to them
Also you MUST get yur daughter checked out because she is at risk for breast cancer
May 25, 2011
dont worry by: Anonymous
Dont worry just get a bra in your size if needed then a padding bra (thats what I wear)And if they dont stop tell ur teacher.
May 24, 2011
girls by: kiara
well you can get her teacher and find a good seat in her class room and just remember boys will be boys and talk to your child often about this problem and make her comfy because its a weird change in a childs life take my advice and i wish you the best
May 20, 2011
The size of my Breasts by: Anonymous
my oppinion is your realy lucky im 10 and my breasts are no way near that size boys laugh at me i wish i was you with those breasts so dont feel embarrised
May 15, 2011
i know believe me by: Anonymous
I am 10 years old and in 5th grade my boobs stick out like two pointy pencils. in bra sizes i am a size 34-36a boys touch and even ask me questions about them.I ignore them or just tell them to stop they usually listen!
May 04, 2011
Boys by: Anonymous
So if boys looK they are boys I was 34a in 5th and I was 11 and they would look every now and then but I did not care so ya and I am a girl I don't care they will look because they are boys if they look make the best out of it do something funny or sexy XD lol and I will do if they look I would smile at them then tell them hey what u doing go to he'll and they still look on school let out a guy grab me on accident (I like him but he does not know ) ( his mom told me he likes me ) and he accidentally did it and he said sorry like 1000 times and even said I'll do anything to prove I am sorry dude ur a guy so
May 03, 2011
Get her a bra! by: April
She should get a bra but not with padding it Shula help and if they are still making fun of her go to her school and talk to her teacher about it I know because I am 10 too! And I had the same problem a bra will make it look better
Apr 18, 2011
ignore it by: anyonomus
all that you have to do is tell your daughter to ignore it. if she stops looking and listening to them, then they'll notice that it's not fun anymore to look at her chest because she's ignoring them. They'll probably think, what's the point? just tell your daughter to try her best to ignore them. But if they don't stop, this may be serious. :)
Apr 10, 2011
Me too!!! by: Anonymous
Hey! I am 10 and boys have been staring at my ( big ) breasts too! So, I searched my problem online(how to get 10-11 year old boys to stop looking at and feeling your boobs) and it said to just relax. Simply relax. If you're in Y6 like me, it's only a matter of months 'til you leave primary. Just keep it in for the rest of the year simple. So that on the last day you can do something dramatic like kiss this crush you have because you probably will never see him again. Easy.
Apr 05, 2011
Boys chest by: Anonymous
I'm twelve and have no boobs whatsoever so your daughter is very lucky. Any tips please. It's getting embarrassing and I can't stand it when we are changing. I have to wear baggy tops.
Apr 04, 2011
all about me by: Kat$$$$$
well im ten and in fifth grade my mom bothers me about wearing a bra but 1 its uncomfetarable and 2 i dont think its noticeable. so wen i dont wear a bra my mom still knows. no one notices me though so ya. and everyone btw its not her its her daughter shes concerned about.!!! $$$$$
Mar 29, 2011
boobs by: Ce Ce
Okay,I have boobs and Iam 11 and I wear a 34A and have all the stages of puberty......its the part of growing up.....boys will be boys......they will look at your books... boys look at mine and a boy in my class that sits next to me asked me if I had boobs.....I looked at him and went back to work.....just tell your daughter ignore it...shell be fine.
Mar 26, 2011
don't worry by: Laura123654
Don't worry much all You need to do is take you 10 year old daughter bra shopping and let her pick out any bra she wants I know walmart has a lot of kid sized bras. sports bras, training bras,strapless bras and cupped bras in all sorts of colors for mostly 10 bucks sometimes less hope it helps.
Mar 21, 2011
Stop means STOP! Mean it aswell x by: Ebss x
As someone has said boys will be boys...I am in year 6 and take size 32 B. I tell them to stop and I am 'VERY' serious about this because it can lead to innapropriate touching which has already happened to someone people. The boys in my class know for a fact that Im serious and stop means STOP I literally direct them and they havent done it since. x
Mar 20, 2011
school choice by: Anonymous
im a 11 year old guy and from a guy prospective i would say to mabe move her to a pivate school or home school BTW i know all this from when my sister had this problem :/
Mar 17, 2011
I'm a 12 year old boy by: Zachary Bussler
I am a 12 year old boy and in 6th grade. I have some friends who notice people staring(I do it while dozing into space w/o realizing it) and they don't care. So you shouldn't be that woried.Tell her to ignore it. Hope I helped X: Zack
Mar 03, 2011
Boys Will Be Boys= Load of Crap by: Elle Demira
When I was around nine I started developing. Boys would often stare through my shirts, forgetting that I had a face. This happened especially during karate class, when I had to wear a very low-cut style of uniform. My mistake was being too embarrassed to 1. ask for the boys to stop looking at my boobs and 2. get some advice. So, naturally, things spiraled down from there. Soon, I got sexually harassed (groped, fondled, you name it) to the point where I had to quit karate. PLEASE don't make your daughter feel even more embarrassed about her body by forcing her to wear baggy clothing, because then she might end up too embarrassed to seek your advice about potential sexual harassment. She should be proud of her womanly shape, and be treated like a person, not just a set of jugs. Let her wear the latest trends and tell her that if some guy stares down her shirt, she needs to tell him, "Hey, look up here. I have a face."
Mar 01, 2011
So by: Anonymous
I'm in fourth grade 4 or 5 girls have breasts.me and my friends could care less.
Feb 23, 2011
it's ok by: Anonymous
Don't pay attention to those rude classmates at all. You should be proud of your body. You are lucky any because some girls have not started growing at all like me. : (
Feb 16, 2011
Help by: Anonymous
You guys are actually kind of lucky.I'm 11 and have no boobs what so ever. All the girls in my class do though.I weigh 93 pounds and thats heavy for a 5th grader.My friend is only 66 pounds and has boobs.I thought if your heavy you get boobs sooner.You got any suggestions or something to make me feel better that would be great. thanks
Jan 31, 2011
Interview... by: Jenn Wiley
Hello again, I've just noticed there are a few new posts since my last one. My name is Jenn Wiley and I'm the deputy features editor at an agency in London, England. I'd like to interview some girls (with the permission of their parents) or their parents about this issue. I can pay you, and make sure you're happy with the copy before it goes out. Please would you consider getting in touch? Even just to ask a few questions? My email address is jennifer@barcroftmedia.com or my phone number from the UK is 0207 923 1827 or from the US is 011-44-207-923-1827. Please get in touch! Thanks
Jan 30, 2011
you guys are trippin by: Anonymous
im a 12 year old boy i dont choose to stare but when i talk to them staring at her i can see way to much as long as your daughter doesnt wear revealing shirts(slutty clothes) she will be fine and yes all boys stare at girls breast
Dec 31, 2010
My opinion by: Anna
Hi, I am 15 now but when I was 9 I started growing. By the time I was 11 I was about a 26 D. Now I am a 28DD. You should not direct your daughter to wear baggy clothing. I wore what ever the style was when I was younger. Sure, I got looked at by boys but I just kindly told them to stop. Telling your child to Wearing baggy clothing just makes them think that there is something wrong with them. She is what she is and she can do whatever she might want to do when she's older. I am 110 pounds and they hurt my back like crazy. Therefore, I will get breast reduction soon... I hope (I am still very young but I just can't bare it any longer)
Dec 29, 2010
my 10 year old grew breasts and boys noticed by: chelsie murray
i know how u feel im 11 and i grewbreasts and boys saw and they tryed to touch me there one time i had a guy touch me there and i think its cool im in 5 grade and that happend u can get boyfriends that way just dont worry
Dec 26, 2010
surreee... by: Anonymous
all you ppl who say ur 9 year olds have a 30DD are trippin. I'm 11 and have a 36B and that's big for my age. yall are crazy
Dec 23, 2010
Dnt Worry, It happens to Evry1..its part of life(: by: Anonymous
Hi, I am a 12 year old girl in middle skool. What is happening to your daughter is all part of life. Just assure her tht it will happen to evry girl in her class eventually and tht she is not alone, lots of girls start to develope around this age. As for the problem with boys, I suggest tht u write a notee to her teacher explaining your concerns nd to just keep her eye out for any boys look in tht direction as it makes ur daughter uncomfortable(If I were in her position I would feel the samee wayy). I also suggest having the teacher ask the boys to keep their eyes on her if they were to be caught foing so. She shouldnt be ashamed of her body...its who she is. She should be comforatble in her own skin. Eventually she will get used to having breasts adn she wnt be the only one as it happens to evry girl. If she is uncomfortable with her breasts, stay away from tight clothing nd let her wear loose or baggy clothing at first to make her feel comfortable then let her return to regular clothing! Gudd luck I really hope this helps. Bye
Dec 18, 2010
breasts by: Anonymous
im eleven and i have started growing.i always dreaded having to wear a bra and opted for crop tops instead.but when i tried a non padded one out of marks & spencers i found it more comfotable than a crop top hope this helped:>
Dec 14, 2010
Share your story by: Jennifer Wiley
Hi everyone, My name is Jenn Wiley, I'm the deputy features editor at an international news and media agency called Barcroft Media (barcroftmedia.com). I've been reading through some of the posts on this messageboard and it certainly sounds like there are some girls out there in challenging situations. I'd like to invite anyone who thinks telling their daughter's story might help other girls to contact me at jennifer@barcroftmedia.com We'd treat all stories with utter sensitivity and respect. We can also pay anyone whose story is published in a newspaper or magazine. Please get in touch - even if it is simply with questions about who we are and how we work. Sincerely, Jenn
Dec 14, 2010
Share your story by: Jennifer Wiley
Hi everyone, My name is Jenn Wiley, I'm the deputy features editor at an international news and media agency called Barcroft Media (barcroftmedia.com). I've been reading through some of the posts on this messageboard and it certainly sounds like there are some girls out there in challenging situations. I'd like to invite anyone who thinks telling their daughter's story might help other girls to contact me at jennifer@barcroftmedia.com We'd treat all stories with utter sensitivity and respect. We can also pay anyone whose story is published in a newspaper or magazine. Please get in touch - even if it is simply with questions about who we are and how we work. Sincerely, Jenn
Nov 27, 2010
I know how you feel by: Izzy
i am almost 11 and i wear a 34A. all the boys in my class come up to me and say can i touch your big boobs. ya like that'll happen. hope you feel better, you are not alone.
Nov 27, 2010
Tell her not to worry by: Carole
My daughter started growing early, but I told her not to worry. Just get her a starter bra and maybe wearing loose clothes may help. Tell her that boys will be boys and that everything is ok. If there is any need, talk to the class teacher about this. Hope this helps =]
Oct 25, 2010
growing up by: Anonymous
My my daughter 10 and she is a 36AA and she have noticed boys in her class looking.Her friends are all flat she has all the boys lining up and asking her out.So tell her not to worried.
Oct 22, 2010
Don't Worry! by: Maddy
She has nothing to worry about. Boys will be boys. Expecially at that age. I actually think shes lucky because im 11 and im not blossoming at all. Im completly flat. I look at my chest every day to see if it has grown just a little but nothing is there. All my friends have them and my friend Tara has a 34DDD. She said she started growing when she was 4 1/2. I have started my period (very annoying and painful) i have vagina and arm hair but absolutly NO BOOBS! I get VERY bad pain in the chest thinking they are growing but once again there was nothing there... sorry if this was a little too informational... but hope this helps!!
Oct 12, 2010
Its not a big deal. by: Shelby Clark
My daughter is 8 years old developing very fast, already has 34 DD breasts, and 4'7 80lbs. I tell her she is special and not to feel ashamed when the school kids stare at her.
Oct 05, 2010
Dun worry!! by: Chanel
Heyy! i just turned 11 two months ago and i have the same problem! i started developing wen i was in 2nd grade. Now im in 6th. I think i was a B cup or something a month ago and my mom thinks i went a size up. Everyone in my class is flat, so im really alone in that sense. Anyway my advise is to just ignore them but beware in gym...
Sep 25, 2010
shes lucky by: Anonymous
i say your daughter should not be ashamed, she should just dress normal as usual and just let them be jealous. im 10 and all my friends have them, exept me. hope this helps :)
Sep 17, 2010
I am an eleven year old dude by: Anonymous
Umm... I would have ur daughter cross her arms lol,no realy i am eleven and noticed girls around me developing but i never stare i find it rud and disrespectfull,she should get used to it as well hope i helped!
Aug 26, 2010
dont worry by: Patrisha
i am a 11 year old girl,and boys in my class always look ther but i wear a loose cardi so they cant tell and my breasts are starting to grow you can kind of tell and al my friends hae devoleped them boys look so she can get used to it ........=]
Aug 22, 2010
titties by: Anonymous
im 10 and my boob size is a size 12D tell your daugther it's ok and shes not alone i started grow boobs when i was 5(1/2) shes lucky :( tell her it will be ok and not to worry have a little talk about boys and dont talk about sex or anything you will just freak her out. tell her the little boys in her class are just little perves or meanies hoped i helped!!!! if you want more advice just ask anything 4 your little girl of course bye bye!!! oh and tell her about periods and pads and tampons i got my period at the age of 7 ok now for for sure bye bye!!!!!:)
Jun 03, 2010
anonymos by: Anonymous
im a 10 year old and i have started pubety, about 3 months ago. i wear trainging bras or a 28A. hope this helps x :)
May 28, 2010
Boobs not growing yet by: Anonymous
I am 10 acd have not started yet it is so embaresing for me cause the girls in my class all have cup bras. how can i make them grow with out a boob job. please tell me.
May 06, 2010
Anonymous by: Anonymous
Hello,I am a 10 year old and i think it is normal that your 10 year old child is developing breasts.You see most girls in my class have developed breasts,And I am just now starting to develop them tell your daughter it is okay B/C there are girls who develop them as young as the age of 5.
Nov 22, 2009
Same thing by: anonmus
My 11 year old daughter is having the same promblem but she is developing quickly and is now a 34a. And is only in year 6 (6th grade).
Nov 10, 2009
looks like she's 16 by: Anonymous
my 6yr old has size cup C.and has a boyfriend.she is also 5ft7.will she grow more?
Nov 10, 2009
jessica by: Anonymous
my 9yr old has a 40DD
Oct 19, 2009
bra by: Anonymous
just buy her a bra, she's old enough now. A bra will atleast make them look a bit better and be more comfy. boys around her are always going to look so she should get used to it now.
Mar 21, 2009
shirts by: holly
ok so if your daughter is 10 put her in baggy shirts. or buy a thick bra and tape it down i do that to my child becase shes a size a 34 and shes 9 !!! so i know what its like.
hope this info helped
holly.b
Mar 10, 2009
boobies by: Anonymous
wear a baggy shirt or tape the bra
Jun 01, 2008
cover properly by: Anonymous
there is a reason why some people prefer hijabs. if you cover yourself properly atleast, the breasts wont be too noticeable and maybe, just maybe, the boys wont notice.
Mar 04, 2008
Boys will be Boys by: charissa miller
There will also be a percent that couldn't care less. I think your daughter may be becoming more aware of people(boys) around HER as well....maybe it's just that time to talk about feelings-and the do's and don'ts of dates-hand holding-kissing...take it as far as you want-or she will let you.
Make sure she knows that blossoming and growing is normal, and eventually we all grow up-and out.
My daughter is 11 and has gone to the movies with a "boy"friend-(parents ther of course)
One day they just surprise you I know!
Hope this helps,
(giftsofgrace.kids.homepagenow.com)
