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l have two children 10 and 12 paddleing bare bottom still best?

by davi jensen
(gaitherburg md)

lately my 10 yr old his mom has had paddle him more often plus bare bottom.we are wondering if he should have to stand facing the corner after his bottom has been paddle bare?perhaps be made to stay bare bottom for a couple of hours?l have not a chance to punish his bottom unlike his mom.mom has been speaking to about him and the need for daddy to redden his bottom bare. l am,hoping he will not need another paddling soon.

my wife does babysitting during the daytime. she has two three year old.their parents do not object to my wife giving an open spanking to one or both.she has spanked both little's bare bottoms about twice weekly.

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l have two children 10 and 12 paddleing bare bottom still best?

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Oct 21, 2011
Why do you do this?
by: Jon

Davi Jensen, you want to know how to best make a little frightened boy's life a misery. You want to spank his small naked buttocks till they are red, then make him stand crying for hours in a corner ashamed in his anguish and nudity. It's surprising that you ask help when the child needs help.
You sound like the dad from hell and remember, kids don't always stay kids. Begg the child for forgiveness and you and the wife change your horrible behaviour now. Otherwise, he will remember the misery you put him through and hopefully deal with you when his time comes.

Oct 15, 2011
Odd attitude
by: Meghan

Yes let him continue to have the puppy. It was perhaps not wise of you to deprive him of that tail wagging friend, but turn it to advantage. Tell him that you want him to have everything, but like losing the puppy he will lose everything unless he does better at school.Actively be involved in his homework, know what he is slow at learning by keeping constantly in touch with his teacher. Monitor him all the time but not like a constant dripping tap but lovingly and interestingly.of corruption, all things that are pretty rmre in Cambodia. Felix (not done)
The recent anonymous contributor, views chastising young lads oddly. He would not spank boys with privates or bums exposed when in puberty. Clearly, when not in puberty he is happy to expose the innocent little lads' intimate areas and spank their small bums. I better not ask him the question how does he know when a lad is in puberty?????? before he spanks him or them.
Why have bare butt spanking for kids-male or female; older or younger at al? (any spanking should be a last resort and amount to just a few light swats on the clothed child's bottom). Apart from that, I agree in total with Bing. That the person who asks how he can best spank his boys will lose his kids. Love your kids and they will love you. Belt them viciously and hate will be your reward.

Oct 14, 2011
Strange methods
by: Megan

The recent anonymous contributor, views chastising boys oddly. He would not spank boys with privates exposed when in puberty. When not in puberty he is happy to expose the innocent little lads and spank their small bums. I will not ask the question how he knows when a lad is in puberty??????
Why have bare butt spanking for kids-male or female; older or younger at all. Apart from that, I agree in total with Bing. That the person who asks how he can best spank his boys will lose his kids. Love your kids and they will love you. Belt them viciously and hate will be your reward.

Oct 13, 2011
too old to make a child expose their bottom.
by: Anonymous

I wouldn't dare spank a child entering puberty. That's getting a little too old to expose his private area. Besides, for children that age, I think grounding is much more appropriate. I can't even believe people would make a 12 yr old drop their pants.

Oct 12, 2011
No, no, no..................
by: Bing

I could not quite make out what you mean-but it seems as if you say that currently your wife spanks your boy of 10 bare bottomed. Now she wants you to spank him also and your 12 year old son as well. You ask if it is all right to spank 10 and 12 year old until their bums are reddened and inflamed. As well you want to put both little lads for 2 hours with their sore red bums uncovered in the corner. Then you ask is this the way to go? I am surprised that you call yourself a father. Have you ever stood for 2 hours in a corner? That is a long time for an adult. For a child with an aching inflamed bum-and bare from the waist down 2 hours in a corner is unthinkable. Worse to be beaten heartlessly by a man they are supposed to trust as their dad. Obviously you are bringing up 2 children who will hate despise and eventually reject you and your wife (who seems to be the boss). Change your ways now, become the leader in the family. Don?t ever allow your wife to lay a finger on the lads. From now on tell the kids to behave if they do it wrong, a smack here and there on the seat of the pants or bare leg fine. Or deprive them of an outing if they don?t behave take away a toy or forbid them to watch TV etc. And love your kids, they are so precious and beautiful!

Oct 11, 2011
Up to you
by: Josh

Davi,
It really is up to you. I spank bare butt when the boys are over 12.They bend over, hands on a low table for support. I always spank with limited force by hand both bum cheeks. When they are seriously naughty I use also a thin twig to give warning smacks inside the bum crack. This makes the 12 year old dance madly. Corner time usually 10 minutes. We always kiss, forgive and are happy.

Oct 02, 2011
Spank but wit care
by: Jack

The dad can hand spank the boys, particularly the older one who is 12. Best to spank his 10 year little boy just wearing tight briefs and singlet. Don't spank too hard, gently you just redden his little bum cheeks,5 smacks make him stand in the corner for 30 minutes.The 12 year old should be bare butt spanked, 10 smacks but with love and not too hard, he gets also 30 minutes in the corner with red butt on display. Hugs and kisses and all is sweet.

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