It completely transformed how we reacted to our son
by Brandi F. (Mother of 2)
( The Woodlands, TX)
It started when he was about twelve months old and it was just, kind of a slow progression, but it started out with some temper tantrums. We just thought, well it's typical, you know, he's fixing to be two but it's starting early and we just noticed that things would set him off. Like we could tell him no for something that maybe another child would be okay with you know if you told them no you can't do that or you can?t have that. But then he would get very upset, he would lay on the floor and scream and cry and kick and we?d be like what's wrong? And of course as new parents, we never had any other kids and, we would sit there and think, well maybe it's because he didn't get his nap. Or maybe it was whatever it could be, you know, he didn't get something else or, he doesn't feel well. We'd come up with all these reasons why and try to reason our way through it and then just kind of he?d get over it after a while and then we?d just move on. Well, as he got older, it got worse. And they would last a lot longer. Some of them could be a couple hours long.
And then it got to a point where she said, well maybe it's time he should see a psychologist. And I said, well, we'll try that. So when right after he turned five, we took him in to see a psychologist thinking okay, this is really going to help, this is just going to be the answer. She gave us some things that she thought might help us with him, so we would try those things and kind of meet back with her every couple weeks and we just weren't really noticing anything. You know, we're like, this is still not working. You know, what do we need to do? She said, well, you know, let's just keep going and finally I told my husband, I said, we can't do this anymore. You know it's very expensive to see a psychologist and we're not seeing the results we need to see. We're doing everything that they?re telling us to do and it's just not working. So that's when I got online and found the Total TransformationŽ.
It was very easy to understand and what I loved was that when we got it, we started using it immediately. And we actually started seeing things change. Immediately. I was like, I can't believe this. My husband was like, wow, this is great.
Now when he does something, he will come back later you know like we'll say, "Okay, we?re done. When you?re calm then we can talk.? He will go on to his room or he?ll go to his area where he stays to, cool down and he will come back and he?ll say, "You know, I was wrong for pushing Makenna. Next time I'm going to count. Next time I'm going to think about this and I'm going to think about what?s going to happen. He a big thinker. So he has to visualize in his head what's happening so he can think about it for the next time. It really has worked with him and I actually started using it with other children in school and things, and I noticed that it worked very well.
Before the Total TransformationŽ life was very hard. It was you go to bed at night and you wake up in the morning and think, "Oh I just wonder how many fits are we going to have to go through today"? And then after we found the Total TransformationŽ and started using it, it was this change that we started feeling more confident about ourselves as parents and that we just weren't parenting Noah the way he needed to be parented. We were falling back on things that didn't work. And we noticed that he was a happier kid. He didn't always walk around with a scowl on his face and just grumbling all the time. He actually wanted to do things with us, and he wanted to go outside and play. And he would actually sit down, he wants to eat dinner at the dinner table every night now because it's fun. He wants to be at dinner with everybody whereas before, he, we just never sat at the table. Because we couldn't all be together. Something would happen. But we have fun together. We laugh.
The Total TransformationŽ is exactly what it says. It completely transformed how we reacted to our son, how we parented him and how he became a problem solver. And without it we would still be struggling, and we would be going towards that teenager that was going to be in a lot of trouble. And I would say that this is perfect for any parent that is struggling and that feels like you know there's nothing else they can do. I just feel very blessed that we found it when we did. And that we were able to use it and that it works immediately. You can start seeing results immediately.
