My 7-year-old son does not care about school and tends to daydream. The teacher has to remind him to pay attention and focus on his work etc. He also lately has been somewhat defiant and "mouthy" (i.e. talks back). I don't believe it is ADD since when he puts his mind to it he can focus on the task. We have been having regular strategy sessions with the teacher and she has definitely been helping. Friends who have experienced the same thing with their kids say one day he will just start to care...are they right?