hi,my 5'1/2yrs old daughter gets easily distracted &lacks concenteration
by jasmeet
(new delhi)
I M A HW & belong to a joint family .I STAY VERY BUSY BUT GIVE MY TIME FOR HER STUDIES.SHE IS VERY ACTIVE ,ANSWERS EVERY STUPID THING,INTERFERES IN EVERYTHING ,KNOWS EVERYTHING,SOMETIMES USES BAD WORDS&GIVE SUCH COMENTS WHICH MAKES ME ANGRY.WHEN I MAKE HER STUDY SHE DO'S THE BEST BUT EVERYTIME IGET COMPLAINTS FROM HER SCHOOL TEACHER THAT SHE IS NOT CONCENTERATING ,SHE IS VERY SLOW,SHE GETS DISTRACTED.EVEN I GET SURPRISED WHEN I SEE HER CLASS SHEETS THAT HER WORK IS NOT THE SAME WHAT SHE DOES INFRONT OF ME.HER WRITING IS GOOD BUT SOMETIMES IT IS HORRIBLE.WHEN I NOTICE HER I SEE SHE IS MORE INTERESTED IN PLAYING WITH A DOLL,MAKEUP, ACTING i.e.SHE MAKES FACES INFRONT OF MIRROR & TALK,WANTS OUTINGS ,LOVES TO EAT (HER TUMMY IS COMING OUT)CARTOONS,MOVIES etc.etcnowdays when i ask her, about what i doubt she can't ,she lies she cheats.there is a canteen in her school i give her 5-10/- rs once in a week but now she has started stealing.when i ask her from where u got this money she lies or says i don't know.i am really worried please tell me what should i do.i think should i make her join tutions or send to hostel,take her to child pschychologist or i don't know what ?.she is not scared of me not even her papa nor anybody.please suggest me.