help father wants to take 5yr old daughter to USA for 7days
I am a single mother..I have a 5yr old daughter..her father and I split up soon after her birth..he is American..he has stayed in this country working for the government but he is unhappy here..his family lives in Chicago and we have all been visiting there at least once a year for past 5yrs..however now he wants to take her without me..I've always said she's too young and not ready but fear its me who's not ready..I said we could ask her now how she feels about going and she said she doesn't want to without me but she says the same when she goes to her dads some weekends but she's fine once she's there and this is what he says..and he feels I should let her go..I'm not trying to be unreasonable or a b#tch as he sees it..please help I need impartial opinions.. My fears are if anything happened ie on the plane or in US is never forgive myself..
