Myself and my fiance have been together for 5 years and we have a 4 year old daughter. im 23 and he is 25. Being young parents has been tough and with us living with his gran and his mom being around everyday has been hard and makes me feel like im not good enough. We have had major issues in the past, worst being drug abuse. He did go to rehab and that is no longer a problem but due to all these things him and our daughter dont bond. For the past three months she has slept by her granny and refuses to stay by us. (she says shes scared of him and he doesnt take notice of her). This is effecting me and my relationship with her as she should be with us at home . How do i get him to realise that his pushing her away and that it seems like he doesnt notice she exists and he needs to put her first not himself. This is all getting me really depressed where i feel like just dieng. Please help.