when ever I ask him for help he response with why me or my friends don't do chores. He also said I'm not a great mom because I live in the past . kids boss the parents around today . help should I kick him out . He talks fresh to me in front of his 12 yr. old brother and now my little guy talks back when I ask him to help or clean his room.
Kick his 20 year old butt out and tell HIM to quit living in the past. You know, the past where Mommy took care of his wittle self, and did all of his chores for him! He needs to get with the present and become a modern day twenty year old that lives on his own, supports himself, does his own "chores" and learns to appreciate how good he had it when he was a "kid!" Put your foot down now, Mama, before he tramples all over you. If he was being respectful I would say to help him out, gently leading him to his own way, but since he seems to have all of the answers and is disrespectful at best to you, I say give him the boot! Remind him how to treat his mother for goodness sake.
