My son is 5 and started school in August. He seems to enjoy going but the teacher told me there have been a few times she has asked him to do something and he has refused point blank to do as he is asked. When she trys to enforce what she has told him to do he throws a massive tantrum and disrupts the rest of the class. He is only ever happy when he is doing something he wants to do but obviously he cannot always pick and choose what he has to do at school. When I talk to him and tell him he has to do as he is told he gets upset and says he wants to be the boss. Any advice would be appreciated!!!