Can i refuse to let my 14 year old son live with me?
My 14 year old son does not want to live with me he wants to live with his dad. I am ok with it if he wants to i have never stopped him from seeing him. But my ex husband won't take him. He see's him when ever he wants but since we split he and my son have made my life hell, they won't let me get on with my life, my son told me he's just going to make my life hell. My ex has a new girlfriend but still won't let me get on with my life. I also have 2 other kids with him there great i have no problems with them, but there brother is always picking on them. I'm at my witts end i need help pls!!!
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Can i refuse to let my 14 year old son live with me?
If you have another husband have him deal with the kid. If you are just by yourself, then look at your options: * Get him into a boarding school, share the cost with your ex husband * Maybe your husband ultimately has custody, hand him over * Let him stay with other tough relatives. * ask for advise from family members how to get rid of him //// If none of this works, don't wash his clothes, don't cook for him, Have a tough uncle, your brother or trusted male friend deal with the lad. It does wonders for a poor behaving boy when a strong male figure helps you set the rules. This could include a bare bottom spanking. Durin that event you should be present.
Oct 28, 2011
Kindly let him go by: Freddie
The facts you present are as follows, your son does not want to live with you but with his father who has separated from you.
Ask him to write down these wishes (I want to stay with dad and not with you etc. date it and sign it) so that no one can say that you are the heartless mother who kicked out her son. If he can't write it down, then do it for him and get him to sign and date it. Then get him to go to his father. The scenario, (from information you provided) it is likely to go like this. He goes to his dad, who does not want him, he comes back to you, you say, now listen you made your choice, you hate me and I don't want anyone in my house who hates me. Close the door. And take it from there, remember, unless you got no choice, don't live with and benefit anyone who hates you!
