My boyfriend has a 12 year old daughter that he gets ever other weekend, everytime she comes over there are always problems between me an him! It started out that she sat on his lap constantly an ever time we would go out in public he would hol her hand! One night I came in the bedroom an they was laying in my bed under the covers an holding hands! Is this normal?? They are always cuddling on the couch while we watch movies, last night I went back to her room to find my boyfriend an walked in to see her changing cloths an him standing there!!! I need advice, help or something!!!
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Boyfriend an 12 year old step daughter issues
NO, IT IS NOT NORMAL! This is called grooming. It is not the girl's fault. You have already told him how you feel about it, and evidently, he could care less about your opinion. Call DHS, and call the girl's mother (even if you can't stand her) she needs to know about it. Jesus, imagine what he would be doing with her, if you were not there! Cut all ties with him. Work on getting the authorities involved so the girl can get the help she needs.
Dec 14, 2011
mmmh by: bobby
Hi ! I would like to say that i have a 21 month old daughter and have to split up with my ex ! So i get to see my angel two days and two nites a week ! I want to cuddle her all tje time as i dont see her that much and i wont let her out of my sight for the whole two days ! And yes i do let her sleep wiv me sometimes! But i know she is 21 mths old and is cute as can be and she wont let me out of her sight too ( she has been a daddys girl from day one :) ) but she is not 12 and i think cuddle is cool in bed cause who doesnt want to cuddle there kids ! But as for him watchin her get underdressed. Its a tough one! But dont be jealous of his child wantin to be with each other, with the time they have ! P.s i bath wiv my daughter but if she was 12 i wouldnt. But i would get dressed and be naked in front of her to cause she is my blood ! And my parents did with me ! But i would not stand starin at my 12 year old naked. I mean if she was 12 and got out of the shower, and i walked in there to brush my teeth, i would carry on as normal but not be oglin her ! So yeah thete is a big different to it ! If you understand me ! Hope this helps ! But it does sound like you are a bit jealous of her cause all his attention is on her when she is there !!! Dont let it get to u cause he is with you and wakes up next to u every morning !! ;) x
Dec 13, 2011
It is not right by: Hamus
You are right there is a problem. Frankly, I can see no justification at all for this indiscrete behaviour. Give your boyfriend just one chance: quit that behaviour or you will leave. Stick to that ultimatum, to have this continue on in the hope that it will get better is foolish and will only devastate you eventually.
