are you a college student and still get spanked by your parent?
by jason smit
(canada)
I have been ready many stories about college student still getting bare spankings at there age because they still live at home and those are the rules I want to know if there are kids who do not live at home but are still getting bare bare spanking because the parents are paying for college and that is there rule's. As long as we pay for college you still get spanked as we see fit. Whats your story.? thanks
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are you a college student and still get spanked by your parent?
Zamut I take my hat of for your courage & for getting your brother from the clutches of your father who is not a father at all.
Sorry but I think that your parents are only crying crocodile tears-so sorry they lost you and your brother to lust upon. Good on you, brave dear friend!
Dec 14, 2011
Think of your future by: Zamut
After reading what Belamby revealed, I never allowed my father to even lay a finger on me. I also was blackmailed into accepting his spanking because I was supported by my parents as a student of 20. I left home and pay for my studies by some borrowings and casual work. When I left my parents pleaded with me to change my mind, promising never to touch me again. But I have broken with them forever, and am now rescuing my younger brother from their clutches. Of course, it should not have ben mr Belamby that made me leave, but his insight triggered it of. It was as if my eyes suddenly opened, and I realised my horible state. Even now about a month after I left home, I stil feel the affect my father had on my life-I have dificulty relating to girls, but I feel I'm healing. It is clear that correspondent Brian is not only spanked by his father but by his mother as well. My mother never spanked me, but always watched as I cringingly was told by father al your clothes of now-and you are forgetting something Zamut. Then I quickly pulled back my foreskin in total submission to his lust. The shame of my mother watching with interest and approval when my father spanked me on my bare bum and inner thighs, stil haunts me. But as Belamby said: 'Long live Freedom. Nearly every day my parents are waiting outside college asking me to come home and pleading for forgiveness,sobbing tears. But they had their chance and I'm free!
Dec 12, 2011
What are you still spanked for. by: yvan125
You don't seem ashamed at all of being spanked at 22 by your parents. What are you acting up to deserve these spankings?Tell us more about the reasons, the frequency and the intensity of them. Are you bare-bottomed spanked? Why do you not try behaving or abiding by your parents' rules in order to avoid these shameful chastisements.Do your college buddies know that you are so disciplined by your parents? How do they react to it? Do you think that your parents could use better ways to keep you in the straight and narrow? If all you write is true, I have al lot a sympathy for you.
Dec 11, 2011
Grad School by: Brian
I was spanked by my parents all through undergrad, and now it is continuing into gradschool.. I am still financially dependent on them at 22 and they told me as long as they were paying I had to submit to them for punishment. I don't get it to often, and I usually deserve it when I do so it isn't too bad
Dec 02, 2011
How interesting by: Rene
I talked about the Forum and the conclusions that Beamby summed up to a friend who also was spanked by his father when over 20. He was surprised about it and said it describes my situation almowt in detail.He also felt that the conclusions about attempted brainwashing was real. By the way my friend escaped, the situation and has nothing to do with his father.
Oct 25, 2011
Long live Freedom........................ by: Belamby
Belamby to Ivan: Delighted to hear you made the break. Just be aware that my advice had to be generic, and if at all useful, should be adapted & or included in your ultimate actions. However, having escaped from those who stifled and oppressed your morality, reasoning, and nearly your sanity; you are now well on the way of self redemption. Be aware that when breaking away from those who brainwash- full recovery is always possible. By now you also would be aware that yours was a typical brainwashing situation adapted to the family with all 3 D?s present. (I aligned them to Ivan?s circumstances) Dependence (succour and finance) Depravation (unless you co-operate, you will be deprived-incorporates isolation e.g. in punishment or torture, victim is isolated)-Disorientation (is this really happening to me-is this real?). If one D is noted no problem; 2 D?s red alert; 3 D?s, run for your life! Always in brainwashing circumstances the following are present to a lesser or major degree: informants (your sister) sensory and sexual stimulation, (I don?t need to go into detail). Destruction of morale and "esprit de corps," Stockholm syndrome: (sympathy, understanding and appreciation of motives behind ormentor?s/captor?s actions. All amounts to Prisoner of War stuff, modified to resemble sensitivity training then once again adapted to the family. I seriously suspect that your tormentor is into occult practises, interestingly those who practise this type of family discipline can like activists in a totalitarian regime justify any activity. Torture and killing are now renamed character modification and elimination for the benefit of all. Best wishes for a very bright and wonderful future! B. .
Oct 20, 2011
My reaction to Belamby by: yvan125
Thank you so much for your advice, Mr Belamby. As you have intuited it, I left the family roof to live in a student home for the school year. I am working part time as an invigilator in a boarding high school and with governemental loans I can pay for my tuition and make both ends meet. I didn't return home since the end of the summer and I don't know if I will return for Christmas. Anyway, the healing process has begun and I am now fully involved in my studies.
I realize that your diagnostic of my personal situation was right and accurate and I will try to work according to your advice. I also take into consideration your remarks on self-esteem, self-confidence and self-assertion. Thank you so much for your help and your support.
Yours truly
Yves
Oct 15, 2011
Leave Now! by: Belamby
If Yvan's story is not fantasy but factual then I give the following conclusion and remedy: Obviously, parents who spank their sons after 16 or 17 are not normal. And if they spank them bare or bare bum with everything exposed, up to and even after these are 20 years of age-they are highly abnormal and probably deviant. They indeed have or are in the process of emasculating their offspring psychologically and mentally. You have surrendered your will, reason and personality to unworthy people. Your father for sure and mother perhaps is twisted people, who enjoy having power over you. Your father more-than ?likely has a sexual urge to see you naked and to treat you sadistically. He does not treat you like a prison warden but like a Nazi concentration camp commander who experiments with you in his unbridled sexual lust. The proof of that assertion is that not one academic/teacher/Police officer /Minister of Religion/Welfare Authority or Institution will approve of what?s happening to you. Your parents may pay for their children?s education, but is that worth the price you pay by losing self respect/esteem/worth, the prospect of marriage probably ruined. So to allow your parents continuation to destroy your future happiness must be avoided- no matter the sacrifice. Now while you still can question the situation and are not completely brainwashed, get out!. Don?t even spend a moment longer under his roof. Also hand him a letter just before you go ?with great detail about what he has done-and tell him that you will sent copies of this communication to all your relatives, and his Religious community. Just wait and see how he will beg you to change your mind and stay. But don?t hesitate leaving and even getting out of Uni and getting employment you are rescuing the one that matters, namely yourself. Be aware also, that your father sad though it is has forfeited his right to be your father. Also, I suggest that you consult a lawyer; because of the torment you suffered your parents may have to pay you compensation. Your sister apparently also is a willing accomplice-note, she will be enlisted by your parents to stay- but don?t!. Your brothers are also selectively abused and destroyed, by your father, help them! When you leave, contact them and help them escape-you may have to enlist the help of a Welfare organisation-but this must not continue! Your father will not get better but far worse as his madness progresses. So act now, by doing this I believe will become the man you should be a man who defends himself and others full of self esteem/purpose and yes happiness! I wish you the very best!
Sep 27, 2011
More information by: yvan125
How old are you? Anyway, I have never heard of a college student slippered by his mum. You must be kidding. I don't believe you, but if I am wrong, I would like to know how your reacted to this spanking? At home. mum stopped spanking me at 13 and since then dad was always spanking me even up to the end of ny ungrad years in college. I would like to exchange with you on this topic and compare our notes, if possible.
Sep 27, 2011
A Little Truth, please by: Anonymous
Obviously, this person is a fetishist who is enjoying this attention. It's probably not even a real story.
Oh, and the phrase "spare the rod, spoil the child" was first written in the 16th century by a critic of corporal punishment who meant it as sarcasm. Check it out.
Aug 14, 2011
spanked as a college student by: Anonymous
I just mouthed off the other day . mom took me by the hand to the side of the sofa. First she explained what i did wrong, then she lowered my pants & my undies. she made me bend over the sofa arm ,took off her slipper and boy did she wear out my Tush ! i probably got 25 whacks ! But i think ,even though it hurt & stung like hell ,i did deserve it & it did help me alot !nn
Aug 12, 2011
still spanked by: Anonymous
My dad still spanks me even for stupid things like the outher day I was walking around the house eating a hamburger and some got on the floor I got 20 smacks for that
Jul 07, 2011
Dave by: Yvan
I didn't read carefully your last message in which you wrote rhat you were an abused child or teen(?) I have a lot of sympathy for you and the way you seem to have got out of it. Don't be worried for me, I am not mistreated or abused. Yes, my studies are central and very important for my future. But above all, I think that is totally in order for a parent to spank a 21 year old ungrad student if he is still living at his parents home. More twenty-somethings are nowadays choosing to live with their parents. This has the obvious benefits-full refrigerator of food,laundry magically washed, dried and returnrd as soon as it is placed in the basket and no-or seriously reduced rent,and utility bills plus the tuition fees for the college. It's a big deal.If I decided to carry on living at my parents'house rather than getting a place of my own, I should accept the consequences, not least of which is having to suffer a good and proper spanking if I put a toe out of line. After all,I am no angel and most of the time, my lickingsot butt warmings are well deserved. So then, I am not abused, blackmailed or taken advantage of, I am just a growing-up kid living in a conservative family who spanks as long as your are living at home. That is the comment that I wanted to bring about your well thought and sensitive last message. With friendship
Yves
Jul 07, 2011
Dave by: Yvan
Dear Dave,
Rereading your messages, I realize that I left out some of your questions
1) My sister is younger than I (18 years) but is obviously the pet child or the model child of my parents. She is indeed very smart and I have never seen her being spanked. She might have been reprimanded a couple of times but never physically disciplined. I wish I could see her tushie tanned because she is not always nice to me.
2) I don't think that any of my classmates at the university knows that I am still spanked snd this subject seldom comes out between us. I heard that one of my classmates was probably spanked for bad grades this winter semester. The reaction was one of surprise and bewilderment. Another classmate told ne that he even found that very cool. Anyway, if they come to know my situation, it'is the kind of reactions I could expect. By the way, I am a B+ student, somewhat withdrawn, who can easily go unoticed.
3) I have to tell you that I was and still is spanked in various positions, When I am spanked by hand, on dad's lap it'is impossible to squirm. Because of his strenght, he can clamp down my little bottom and my genital organs between both of his legs and so I found myself caugtht in a stranglehold.
4) You would like me to point out my dad in the direction of other or substitute ways of punishing me. Good luck! My dad who was apanked by his parents till 25 years is an invicible believer in corporal punishments. Besides, the home tasks that you suggest to be done as punishments are precisely the reasons why I am still apanked.By the way, do you think that I will convince him by saying that no college student is spanked nowadays and it's not appropriate to do it? He is always telling me that as long as I behave like a spoiled brat, I will be punished as such.
Thank you so much again for your kindly consideration of these complementary remarks. So long.
Jul 07, 2011
to Dave by: yvan
Dear Dave.
I don't know what happened but I just come across your three messages today and I find your comments very acurate and pertinent. Maybe, I don't know very well how to use this forum or it functions.
I believe that what you are counseling to me is very realistic and practical but very hard to put into practice in my personal circumstances. To answer some of your questions, I wouldn't say that my family is a loving family. The atmosphere is very tense and heavy,and,like in any traditional religious family, what is expected from us is good manners, politeness,obedience, respect of the parents, high performance at school and especially no sex at home. There is no intimacy or even friendship between my sister and I and also between my two younger brothers. My parents, dad, an ex- religious brother and mum, an ex sister are, me think. making up a good snd stable couple albeit very authoritarian, disciplinarian and strict. They are more just than loving. Now, my family looks like a stern boarding-school,the more since Dad had starting giving the strap to my 15 years old bro in his den for insolence and insubordination.
As you can see, i have no girl friend like almost all the other young men of my age because I don't feel the need of it now. My studies at college are my main concern and besides, I don't think that my parents might allow me to go out regularly before the end of my undergraduate atudies. By the way, I am still struggling with some teen age sexual problems like masturbation.I am very cautions now, since two years ago, I was caught jerking off by mum and soundly spanked in the bathroom by dad. My arse remembered it! I enjoy being dressed in denim short shorts and hanging about with younger boys. I could be gay: I am more attracted by nice men and youg men than women but I am not sure. I am rather ambivalent on this matter.
I thought that you were kidding when you hinted in your message that my sister could be allowed to spank me. No, it's not the case. Why? Because, it would be improper and indecent in our religious conservative family.
Finally, I will take into consideration the guidelines that you set out for me. I don't guarantee you that I would explain to dad as firmly and decisively as you the reasons why he has to stop spanking me, but I will try with all my energy and courage. Please, tell me more about your life, your age,your marital status, your profession, your hobbies, etc.
Thanks again for your insightful advice. So long
Cheers
Yves
Jul 07, 2011
Yvan 2/2 by: Dave
Because they have a 3000 characters I have to write in many section. How I just to remember whereI left off. I think it was at the point where I was asking you whether the spankings you recieve are spankings or abuse and if it is abuse you have to do something about it I do not want to here you say. But they are paying for college. Whats a sore butt if I get college paid for. Well there's a big problem it more like blackmail. Do you have a girlfriend? Lets say you do what she where to say because we are girlfriend and boyfriend I will give you a spanking every time we see each other.(and no its not a playful spanking) It's like the ones you get from your parents long and hard. What would you. Well she my girlfriend ya she is but it does not make it right. Do you have aunts and uncle's do they know that you kids get spanked well maybe ask them to help you to talk to your parents. I think this will be very good for your selfiseam am maybe you will see yourself in a different light. Also your parents may feel that to they may not like the way you went about it but you stood up for yourself and at the end thats whats more important.You know your parents. Is College that important to you that you will give up your selfesteam. As for me I am a survival of child abuse so I know abit of what I am talking about. If I only got spanked like you I would be lucky but no way. It was belt rules and screwdrive for me and to finish it off the odd drowing in the lake.
Jul 07, 2011
Yvan by: Dave
I had a few more questions and comments to write. You said that you have a part time job in a grocery store, Why not full time it's the summer your college is over for now no? And if they do not have full time check some where else. Are your parents loving towards you and your brothers and sister and is it a really parent child relationship meaning (Parents talk children listen or else) or do guys get along and can talk about anything with them. Is there love in the family kissing hugging all that sort of stuff or is it very strict. Your Mother and Father are they happy together do they get along or are they always frighting and you kids are caught in the middle. Now back to you getting spanked. Are you threated in public if you do not behave you will be getting a spanking or is the whole spanking kept silent. Your sister is younger right or older I do not remember if she is older is she allowed to spank you and your brothers? and if so how does she spank you. That last question was a bit nutty I know. But I did read some where where a sister or was it the brother who give there brothers and sisters spanking with the parent permission. Yvan think its time for you to talk to your parents about this whole spanking thing. I do not think its right. You should talk to them together explaining that you are in college now and college kid do not get spanked its unheard of. Well it is heard of but they do not have to know that. I think you will look at yourself in a complete different way if they were to stop. Ok they will come back my house my rules. Your answer to that is yes you are right if I break your rules I should be punished but how about I do house work cutting the grass cleaning the car other things that do not invole spanking. Do you have a cell phone I am sure they pay for that right.They can take that away for a week or so. You in turn most start to grown up. If you want your parents to treat you like an adult then you must behave like one. This whole converation just might open there eye's and see that you are going up. How do you see yourself and how do they see you? Do you have a girlfriend? Now having said all this you must go about this the right way. You must have not this talk when you are about to get a spanking that would not be a good idea because you might get the worst spanking of your life. This talk you have is when everyone is calm and there has been no spanking for awhile. Also you talk calmly it is a question not a demand and if that does not work what if you were to say "If you were to spank me one more time I will leave college and find my own place to live. And be serious about it. It might open there eye's seeing that you are grown up. Or will that cause them to spank you. You know your parents I am sure you can find a way. How about aunts and uncles do they know that this is going on? Ask them for help. Last point on this do you look at the spankings as spankings or abuse if it abuse
Jul 06, 2011
Yvan by: Dave
You asked if you could see all comment lefted on the topic yes you can. All you have to do is once you have finish with your comment just check of send me notice when someone leave a new comment and you will recieve all comment every time someone leave one.As for if you want to read more about spanking teenagers and scroll down to find what you are looking for. So when you are leaving a comment you may want to use a different name so your friends will not know its you.
Jul 06, 2011
Yvan by: Dave
What happen to you or have you been busy. I was waiting for your response. I forgot to tell you its ok for you write to me about your storys of being spanked. You said your sister is not spanked why not was she ever spanked and if so how was she spanked. Do your friends know you still get spanked and if so what do they think or do you keep it to yourself. What about the spankings are they done in private or are you spanked in front of everyone. Nexted when you are spanked are you allowed to squirm meaning moving around over your dad's knee and protecting your bottom with your hands what happens if you do these things.
Jul 05, 2011
Your last reply by: yvan
Thank you so much for your kind and speedy reply. I agree with you. There are a lot of things that I can control but that goes both ways. My parents are punishing me because they find I have attitudes and I am obstinate and stubborn. What can you do in this case? You emphasize that I must assert myself more and behave like a 21 years old grown-up. You're perfectly right. I try my best but it's easy to say but hard to put into day to day practice. I reckon that I am lacking a lot in self-esteem and in self-confidence. I must add that I feel too compliant concerning these corporal punishments. As strange as it might be, I came to accept these corporal punishements with a kind of relief,if not witha kind od indifference. Most of the times.I am aroused before and after a spanking. Don't get me wrong, I hate being spanked. It's really painful. I always squirm. bawl and howl like a baby, but after,I enjoy the tingling on my red fanny. I look at my red bottom in he mirror and and every time I am jerking off. I know that it's not normal for a young man of my age. I like to regress to infancy and fell comfortable and relieved when on dad's lap. I get also the feeling of being tamed and subdued. It's,as I can see it, an exercise where I experience my total vulnerability and where I meet the two main life strenghts: power and sex.
I want now to answer your two questions
1) My 18 years old sister is very mature for her age. She doesn't need to be spanked.I have seen her being scolded or reprimanded,but never spanked. Besides, Dad is of the old school You never punish physically a young lady. 2) Yes, I got corporal punishments at the Catholic junior college I attended. My parents knew it, and this was the reason why they enrolled us in this junior college. In the first years, it was not to bad. Although the strap was less and less used on the palm of the senior students, I found the way to get it three times, once at 17 for faul langusge and the same year for improper behaviour with another classmate(fondling) and at 19 for trying to cheat (plagiarism)n in a geometry exam. The prefect, because of my age, called mum to get the authorization to punish me. I got it and was so ashamed for I was about to graduate.
Well, thank you again for your wise advice. I will surely try to put it into practice.
I look forward to your reply. So long
Cheers,
Yves
Jul 04, 2011
Yvan by: Dave
Ok let me try to answer your question what I met byyou are a grown 21 man getting a bare bottom spanking like you were 2 years old that is not fair. To be honest I was shocked I wrote that because I am all for spanking no matter the age. I guess I am changing my idea's. No its not that it one thing to talk about giving a grown man a spanking but actual doing it's completeing different. I guess I have to go back to my straight forward talk and thinking. It's your parents house your parents rules. Plain and sible right right. If you do not want to get spank well believe it or not you control that.Yes you do How you may say well its quite simple Yvan you do not want to get spanked and behave young man. Otherwise you will keep on getting spanked. and while we are still talking about spankings why is it that you and your brothers get spanked not your sister? are you sure about this or is it like a family rule the get spanked until who knows when and the girls until what age? that not right.But there's nothing you can do about that. The other point I had was you can go to other site's that talk about college students getting spanked and those site's are Experience Project and the other site is fitlife. At what age were you when you were getting spanked at that riligious college did your parents know this was going on. And how did those spankings go or were they paddling with a paddle. If you have not notice I have a thing for spanking I find them interesting as much I would like to go on with this conversation we have to move on to other things that I found in your response comment. Let get one thing straight Yvan people treat you how you allow them to treat you. Stand up for yourself look yourself in the mirror and say I am a man it does not matter how tall you are how much you wieght how much hair you have on your body. Whats really go on there's is more than what you are tell me. Speak you and let it out. Have you ever tried loans and bersirous from the college do not mind my spelling I think faster than I can write it down.
Jul 04, 2011
To Dave by: yvan
Dear Dave,
Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice, I am working now part time in a grocery store but I don't earn enough to envision to live on my own and obviously to pay for my tuition in September. I would surely have to depend one or two more years on dad's dime. The home rules will always stay the same with the same corporal punishments in cas of violation. To answer your questions: yes. my two younger brothers aged 17, 15 are spanked the same way as I am, but not my sister (18). As I told you, I don't mind too much because I am used to corporal punishments at school( I got the strap a lot in the religious college I attended) and at home. I know that my parents are in a rut and they will never change. As long as I live under their roof and I am dependent emotionally and financially of them I will be liable to bare bottom spankings.My house, my rules whatever old you are.
There are two sentences in your comment that I don't understand. Please what do you mean by these entences.
..." you are 21 come off it a grown man having your pants and underwears pulled out and spanked... What do you mean? I don't look or feel like a grown man (5" 3', 136 pounds) and I am easy to handle on dad's lap. I began to shave for good at the end of my 18th year and I am still hairless on my chest and legs. I still enjoy wearing short shorts at college and show off as much of my pasty thighs and legs that I can.
and this sentence:
...and I am not sure might maybe fitlife please let me know, and to know others students that are getting spanked... I don't undertand at all what you mean because English is not my mother language. Please explain more extensively your thought.
Finally, I would like to know more about you and would be interessed in futher exchanging with you on this subject. Thanks again
Cheers
Yvan
Jul 03, 2011
Yvan by: Dave
Yvan as I see it its time for you to grow up.As I always say if you know the rules of the house by do you break them? And if you knew the punishment for breaking the rules were getting a bare bottom spankink so then why break them. It really does not matter how tall you are it's all in your head. I think that its time for you find a job and start to pay for college yourself and at least convice your parents to stop spanking you. You are 21 come off it a grown man having your pants and underwear pulled and spanked like a two year old. I think its time for you to grow up and act your age and I think you going back home is not a good thing for you maybe your parents still see you as a child. Even thou I beleave in discipline and bare bottom spanks if you break the rules but it comes a time to stop. I would be interested to know whether if your brothers and sister still get spanked that way and how old are they. And yes you can find other site's of college students still getting spanked you can find it here and Expereince project and I am not to sure might maybe fitlife please let me know. and to know other students that are getting spanked but they do not know you are getting spanked
Jul 02, 2011
Still apanked by: yvan
I am a 21 years old humanities student and commute every week from college to home. I am still dependent of my parents who pay for my tuition and my lodging. I stay home during the summer vacations. When I break some home rules like when I willfully break out my curfew of 12P.M.,the next morming I get unmistakebly a good and proper bare bottom spanking like I used to get when I was a 12 years kid. I don't think a lot about it because that is the way the things are at home. I can change anything but my own behaviour. Besides, nobody at the university knows that I am still spanked at my age, although I look five or six years younger than my age. I am also spanked for disrespect for mum, backtalking or foul language in front of my younger siblings. My dad believes that I am lacking in maturity snd I think that he is right on this point. I think that I need this discipline, embarrassing as that might be to admit. I believe that some guys take longer to mature that others, as I am one of the guys myself. I think that this kind of discipline will last till I move out definitively at 23 or 24. Could you imagine how belittled and childish I feel when my own mum or dad are pulling down my underpants to spank my bare bottom. It certainly brings me down a peg or two and puts me very firmly, albeit temporarly, back in my place. Most guys in the 20's dont get spanked by their parents but how many of them might just benefit from getting what I get.
P.S. To the moderator of this post. Could we have futher comments to the replies of this post. I would be interessed in knowing if there are many young men still disciplined by their parents and how do they feel. I am other comments to make, but I feel so shameful...
