My Ex-boyfriend left me when we found out that I was pregnant, now my boy is 7 years old and his father doesnt want to see him or have anything to do with him; but I have never kept it a secret from him since he was much smaller he knows what happened and that he also has to brothers from his father's 1st marriage, the boys are now 11 yrs old and 12 yrs old. My son wants to meet them, I have spoken several times with their mother to see if they can meet and she has no problem with it but the father objects to it! I really dont know if to just leave it and probably when they are older they will meet for themselves, talk to the father and tell him (which he will object) or when I see the boys down town go ahead myself and tell them that this is their younger brother...I dont want to hurt no-ones feelings but my son and I are suffering about this. Can any one pls give me some adice on this situation pls.