Discussing
spiritual matters with young ones can be a trying
task. If you have ever attempted it, you know that
their insatiable curiosity will lead them to ask many
questions which might end up stumping you. So when
you are teaching your children to pray, you will have
to be very strategic about it.
To
start with, you should pray with your child on a nightly
basis. He or she will be able to learn by example,
and in seeing you bring yourself before the Lord,
a good example will be set. But this isn¡¯t
limited to nightly kneeling sessions by the bed. Teaching
prayer is something that should happen in your day-to-day
life.
Whenever
even the smallest blessing occurs, point it out to
your children and thank God for it. This will establish
with the child that for everything precious in the
world, God is to be thanked.
Be
extremely aware of whenever the prayer of your child
is answered. It is too easy to pray for something,
and then when it happens think something along the
lines of ¡°wow, that was lucky!¡± If you
notice that some prayer of your child has come true,
make a huge deal of it and show the child the importance
of looking for God in daily life.
From
the beginning of your child¡¯s life, teach him
or her to enjoy the creation that God has given us.
Point out the sheer natural beauty of the world we
live in, and point out how God has given us the gifts
to enjoy.
Just
as you appreciate beauty and miracles through prayer
with your children, teach them to use prayer to cope
with unpleasant situations. For example, if you pass
a car crash, say a quick family prayer. This will
teach your child that prayer is multi-faceted, and
an outlet for showing gratefulness as well as appealing
to God¡¯s good will.
Every
evening, bless and pray over your children. Use the
classic blessing before bedtime: ¡°May the Lord
bless you and keep you; may the Lord make His face
shine upon you and be gracious to you; may the Lord
turn His face toward you and give you peace.¡±
This will help your children to realize that God is
always present and protective.
Prayer,
like anything taught to a child, is better taught
through actions than by trying to explain. Show your
child what it is like to pray on a regular basis.
Bring prayer up whenever possible, and relate it to
the current situation. If you can truly impress the
importance and the significance of prayer on your
child, you will have accomplished a truly great feat
as a parent.
About
The Author: Michael Heindel is the owner of http://www.PrayerRequestBox.com
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a prayer request or pray for others.
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