Many
parents enroll their children in preschool programs
without considering whether or not their child is
really ready for preschool. Many parents are eager
to give their child a head start in the race to educational
success so children are starting preschool at younger
ages. However, enrolling your child too early in preschool
can cause long-term problems with your child's education
rather than giving the head start you intended.
How
can you judge whether or not your child is ready for
preschool? Take a look at three key areas: physical
development, social development, and emotional development.
You
should also look at the program itself. For example,
some programs are specifically geared to a young age
group and are less about formal education and more
about play and social experience. Some programs have
very limited time periods (only a few hours a week)
and are intended to introduce young children very
gently to the educational experience. However, the
standard preschool program is generally geared toward
children ages 3 and 4 in preparation for kindergarten.
Just because your child falls within the correct age
group does not mean your child is ready for preschool.
Forcing a child who is not ready physically, socially,
or emotionally into a formal school setting could
set the child up for failure which could then result
in a life-long problem with school.
Physically
your child should be able to attend to most personal
hygiene issues independently or under supervision.
This means the child should be potty trained as well
as able to clean up afterward (including unfastening
and fastening clothing). Your child should also be
able to feed herself with little or no supervision.
The
child should also be able to focus on a task, such
as coloring, as well as listen attentively, to a story
or conversation, for longer than a few minutes.
Another
important physical development issue is whether or
not your child is able to maintain the school schedule.
Will the snack and meal breaks meet your child's nutritional
needs? Will he be able to stay awake until it is time
to leave or take a nap?
Preschool
is often a time and place when children learn a great
deal about friendship and social interactions, but
if a child isn't ready for this level of social activity
it can be tough on the child, class, and family. Children
should have some experience playing with their peers,
learning to share and take turns, and working out
their differences before attending preschool. Children
should also have some experience taking direction
from adults who are not their primary caregivers.
For example, a child who has only been in the care
of a select few relatives may have difficulty adjusting
to the care of a strange new adult.
Emotional
development is another key consideration when determining
if a child is ready for preschool. Is your child ready
for the separation from home and parent or previous
day care provider? How does your child adjust to new
places and people?
If
you think your child is not ready in one or more of
these important areas then you should put off starting
preschool. It may be that in a few months time your
child will have leaped past those hurdles and be ready
to start. You can also work with your child on the
areas you feel need work, such as personal care or
social interaction. Many programs also allow you to
ease your child into the program with only a few hours
a week gradually stepping up to full participation.
Remember,
young children grow and develop at a tremendous pace
so simply giving your child some time to grow into
a program is much better than forcing the issue. In
later years your child won't feel the impact of those
"missed" months on their education but a positive
preschool experience will have a lasting effect on
self esteem and learning.
Starting
your child's preschool experience when they are ready,
willing, and able is the best way to set your child
on the road to educational success.
About
The Author: Deanna Mascle shares more articles about
preschool education at Teach Your Preschooler at http://TeachYourPreschooler.com
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