I do not know what to do! She cries about everything and I mean everyting.Getting dressed, having to eat, getting ready for school(which is done by my wife who had a stroke and is paralyzed on one side),going to bed, etc. She has nice cloths but insists on wearing the one that are baggy and look terrible. She refuses to wear underwear and we have to check her everytime she walks out the door.I was brought up by a strict father (my mother died when I was 8) and I tried being strict with her but all I get is more crying. My wife lets her get away with everything so now she can not do anything with her. What do I do?