My step daughter has no contact with her mother her moms just a loser anyhow she lives with her grandma ab comes over to see her father an my son they both have the same dad so when I'm with her baby brother feeding him or changin his diaper or givin him any attention she acts up rtalks back an does not listen I try to involve her as much as possable an I do put away special time for her I don't let her change the brothers diaper cuz I believe little girls should not look or touch little boys that's my own issue on that I just don't like it but anyhow she don't listen so I give her time out she is sonstantly talkin back I just can't get throiugh to her I even tell her if ur good ull get rewarded iuf ur bad u sit in time out an get nuttin but she don't get it what else can I do to stop the jelousy its sobad iuf my sons wearing a hat she wants to wear one even though I just did her hair pretty an takes a fit cuz I won't let her wear it