My 4 year old grandaughter acts out when her mom (my daughter) picks her up at my house after work. She won't give her mother a kiss, the 4 yr old just abouts ignores her mother. My daughter makes a big deal about it and practilly forces her to give her a kiss. This bothers me ..... My daughter is the displinarian in their house, where as her husband is layed back. They also have a 2 year old daughter. This has been going on for a year now. Does anyone have any experience with this and can give me some advice.