My 20 yr old stepson who still lives with my husband and i is really stressing me out, he graduated from school and just plays video games all day, my husband does not seem to think that their is anything wrong with this,he doesnt have a drivers license, a job, a girlfriend, i asked him to talk to him about helping around the house and helping his dad with yard work, but he NEVER says anything to him. his bedroom is right next to ours so privacy and sexual relations is 0% right now, i told my husband that he needs to take him driving so he can get a license get a job save up and move out and that he cant live with us forever, he said i know, but he didnt talk to him, he just doesent encourage him to do anything. please any comments would be helpful.