Me and my wife we been married 24 year 2 kids a girl 22 and boy 20.
the boy was a popular boy up to softmore in high school , playd soccer and Basketball he had a girlfriend witch where figthing everyday, we dicover that he start smokink pot at 16, we had a counsolor to talk to him, but he still continue, his grade in high school where terribile he managed to graduate. lost 2 year he was no elegibile to play sport. he worked one summer and only 4 week the following summer. he was chose to play soccer in college first division, but after 3 weeks he quit , and he pretend to go to classes , he was trowing out of the dorm for smoking pot daily , he cam home ,he want to go back to university and try to go to school he told us I learn my lesson I wanto to go the school. So second semester we drove himto school about 2 hours round trip. that was only 3 days a week. at the end on semester he passed only one class.he was 'nt going to school he was stay at some friends dorm. has today no school , had a part time job on weekend and he quit. he lives in appartament in another town with his sister witch she graduate next year. he so differnt mental doctors and they sayd notting wrong with him. any sujjestion what to do? disperate parents no hope
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20 year boy no school no work smoking pot regular
Stop mothering or smothering him. How old will he have to be to be called man instead of boy?
What would it do to a toddler to be called baby, for a teen ager to be called toddler? It appears as if you support him and treat him like one who hangs onto the apron strings. You excuse eveything he does-because he is such 'a poor little boy'. You probably still suport him and act as if he has no real resposibility. Cut those ties and hold him resposible, make a man of the toddler!
Jun 13, 2011
spanking a 20 yr. old ! not a problem by: Anonymous
Spare the Rod , Spoil the child ! No matter the age ,kids & teens need to be disciplined !I would set rules, and if violated ,punishment should be in full effect. I would take him to the kichen table ,lower his pants,make him bend well over & grasp the far end of the table.then pull down the underpants just enough to fully expose his tush and WHACK ! Youll be amazed at the results
Jun 12, 2011
How old his here by: Dave
Mon and Dad you guy's need to wake up and smell the pot. The writing is on the wall you are not doing him any favors my treating him like a child that why he his doing what he doing because he knows you guys will bail him. its time for some tought love and I mean tought love are guys up for it? If you are giving him money that stops right now his here living with you give him least say a month to find a job at the of the month job no room at your house be prepared to change the locks or where ever he is living so you have to be supportive to your daughter if he his living there. Let me back track a minute first you guys need to have a long talk with him like a intervention. You need to know what his goals are were does he see himself going. but what ever it is You have to stop babying him he his a adult and if you not to be supporting him for the next five to ten years you need to do something as for the pot you know he can go to jail depending laws were you live. You can some what control it by my house my rules there will be no pot smoking in our house thats every were he is living. How know he his your son brother and friend but if you love him you have to do something do to nothing is to agree in what he is doing.
