I have been with her father for 4 yrs now. She had nothing when I came into the picture. Since then she has everything she could ever need or want. She steals from my 4 yr old son and from me. Her father says to my face he will do whatever plan we come up with. It never happens. This is my home. I have a good mind to cut her out and they can have their visits at his fathers house. She crossed the line stealing from my child. Just want to hear someone else's view. I tend to get mad and hold onto it until I have had my fill. I AM THERE!!! Help please. BTW her mom is a druggie and doesnt care to even buy her coat when it is 17 degress outside. Thank you
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13 yr old girl who manipulates everyone.
You say she had nothing but you have given her everything. So, her father also had nothing?
I will get to my point, but you got into a relationship with a man that had nothing to offer but himself and his daughter, right? He and his daughter moved in with you?
When I hear the word "nothing" I think homeless or thereabouts. When I hear the word "everything" I think house, car, clothes, food, jewelry, games, toys, etc...
Assuming we are defining the same, now that you have taken these two into your life, does everyone in your household get the same treatment or do you and your son get treatment "A" and the daughter and her father get a lesser treatment "B"?
Jan 02, 2012
Hold Your Ground! by: Cami
Most importantly, you hold your ground, you have to be the Head of your house hold. No is No. The girl has learned from the mother obviously, and of course the apple does not fall to far from the tree. Be strong and don't let things get too out of hand and cause your happiness and love to fall apart. Kids and teenagers in todays world want to have things there way.. It needs to stop and by just staying in the right path. Meaning to keep your self in check and correcting whatever may need to be done with the girl. She may act out or fight you are curse you, but it does not mean much. You really have to show who is the boss of the outfit, don't put up with anything, especially from here on out. The father has to understand that you have provided to this day, to give and be a mother to the girl, but even with the father you have to be strong. Overall women hold most of the pain, issues, planning, correcting, discipline, healer, caretaker, you name it. Women do it all. And by that! You take charge, don't look back at "what if, or should I, or Could I", just know that it is for the best of you and your family.
Stay Strong, Live Life to the fullest, you are most important, children will be okay..
