My daughter is 11 years old and still has these outrageous fits if a plan changes or she just plain doesn't like it....she will let everyone know that she hates them and that nobody cares about her...I thought I have given her a really good life...we are busy doing things all the time and she does alot of stuff with her friends...I know I am guilty of letting her get away with things as I was a single parent and it just seemed easier...but now being in a relationship and having that structure that she needs it seems to be getting harder being a parent...I thought it was suppose to be easier having that extra parent help....anyone have any suggestions?