My husband and I have been raising our grandson since he was 3 yrs.;He is a very smart child in school and is sweet and loving;This year almost every morning he4 has panic attacks when I am trying to get him off to school,It is not an act I can feel his pain it is everything I can do to get him in the car to get him to school the whole time he is crying and begging me please granny just let me stay home today please;He has already missed 7 days this year.I am working with the school principal and counselor I just started with them.They said they have a lot of boys this year going through the same thing but this is my child I can't help him I have decided to take him to a doctor and maybe put him on medication I do not want to do that;But I see so much pain in his eyes he looks like a caged animal begging for help and that is how I feel;What can I do?